Five Ways in Which Having a Baby Affects Your Marriage

Having a baby brings joy to the family since it is a product of love that is shared in the family. It also comes with responsibilities since a baby needs to be taken care of.  When the baby comes, it affects the marriage either positively or negatively.

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A baby makes a family union stronger since it is a shared bond. It brings joy to the family. The love that you share for the baby will bring you closer and make your love for each other stronger.

Lack of time for each other

You may find that after the baby comes, you do not have time for each other since the time is used in taking care of the baby. This is especially so in the first year’s of life of the baby. The time that you used to spend together is now taken by the baby. You may find that this has created distance between you and your partner.

Failure to focus on each other

When the baby comes, the focus that you used to have on each other may no longer be there. This is because all the attention is taken by the baby. You are too busy trying to meet the needs of the baby that you forget each others needs. The situation can be worse if it is one person who is more attentive to the baby and therefore the other partner feels neglected. These feelings may have a negative impact on your marriage if not dealt with accordingly.

Differences on how to raise the child

Marriage is made of two different people which different backgrounds. You may find that you also have different opinion on how to raise the child from your partner. This may affect the marriage negatively since you both want the best for the baby while you have different opinions on how to raise it. This may happen even if you had discussed on how to raise the child earlier since what is discussed is usually different from what happens in real life.

Chores in the house

Before the baby arrives the chores are not as many and you may have found a way to move around them. Having a baby brings a change all that since there is more to be done in the house. You may find that you are disagreeing on who does what chore.

A baby is a blessing in marriage and it should make the marriage stronger rather than break it. It is upon the couple to find ways of dealing with the issues that crop up when the baby arrives.


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