Choose Challenges Wisely


I joined a 60 day video challenge a couple months ago and dropped out after 15 days. Looking back now I realize that I was doomed to fail before I even started. Why?

I don’t like myself on camera. There are very few pictures of me and those that exist are few and far between. There was a brief period when I was into my hair and took a lot of ‘selfies’ but that has passed. People who know me well know that I really don’t like to take pictures and usually have to resort to sneak attacks in order to get one.

So why in the world did I join a video challenge?!

Well I wanted to step out of my comfort zone, and even though this was going way outside of that zone, I wanted to push myself. I also thought this would help with my consistency issues because I would have to do this every day and I thought this would spill in to other areas I was struggling with, like writing.

What I failed to realize is that because the challenge involved doing something that I disliked so much, I subconsciously sabotaged myself. I would come up with all kinds of reasons not to do a video: I was too busy, I didn’t know what I was doing, my videos weren’t as good as others, blah blah blah. The real reason was because I just didn’t like myself on camera and didn’t want to do it.

I love a challenge and I really enjoy pushing myself to try new things, learn new things, and continue to improve myself and grow but I realize now that if I really dislike something so much that I subconsciously set myself up to fail, then that something is not for me.

Share small business news, blogs and social media tips with Project Eve’s community of small business owners and entrepreneurs today. Our contributors come from a wide range of backgrounds; so whether you are a small business owner, social media strategist, financial adviser, serial entrepreneur, or write an amateur blog we urge you to contribute a blog to our 350,000+ community today. For more information, please refer to our Content Submissions Guidelines.

Add a Blog


  1. 913217 512265Spot up for this write-up, I seriously believe this website needs a great deal much more consideration. Ill apt to be once far more to learn additional, appreciate your that information. 621336

  2. 151640 484321This post is very appealing to thinking people like me. Its not only thought-provoking, it draws you in from the beginning. This really is well-written content material. The views here are also appealing to me. Thank you. 938855

  3. 530795 736210This design is steller! You surely know how to maintain a reader entertained. Between your wit and your videos, I was almost moved to start my own weblog (properly, almostHaHa!) Great job. I actually enjoyed what you had to say, and more than that, how you presented it. Too cool! 919702

  4. 269937 995878In case you are interested in imagine a alter in distinct llife, starting up generally the Los angeles Surgical procedures fat reduction method is a large movement so that you can accomplishing which usually thought. shed belly fat 679592

  5. 138775 378911Cheapest speeches and toasts, as properly as toasts. probably are produced building your own at the party and will likely be most likely to turn into witty, humorous so new even. best man toast 114784

  6. 701173 718749Hey there guys, newbie here. Ive lurked about here for a bit although and thought Id take part in! Looks like youve got quite a excellent place here 190761

  7. 755288 457445The book is wonderful, but this review is not exactly spot-on. Being a Superhero is more about selecting foods that heal your body, not just eating meat/dairy-free. Processed foods like those mentioned in this review arent what Alicia is trying to promote. In the event you arent open to sea vegetables (and yes, Im talking sea weed), just stop at vegan. 139306

  8. 90024 580178Currently it seems like BlogEngine could be the very best blogging platform out there appropriate now. (from what Ive read) Is that what youre using on your weblog? 658856


Please enter your comment!
Please enter your name here